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Toscano and Chang talk with a special guest, Mark Hernandez, who met Toscano back in the 7th grade. They talk about some of the challenges, heartaches, and fun times of growing up in the 1980s.

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What point. Welcome everybody. This
is the one and only Back to

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the Radio show. I am Tiscano
from Tiscanno and Chang. Today is a

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very special show because we have a
very special guest in studio. Aside from,

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of course, the ever wondrous man, to whom a lot of people

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call the eighth Wonder of nature here
and back to the eighties, we call

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him the Chang. That's incredible.
I thought it was the seventh Wonder.

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No, you're the eighth wonder,
my friend. Well, maybe I'll move

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up a notch when I find uh
sasquatch out here where I live in an

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undisclosed area yeah, well I thought
I saw him yesterday. Thank you for

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joining us today on another edition of
Back to the Eighties Radio. Reminding you

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com. That's Back to the Eighties
Radio at gmail dot com. Now,

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I want to give a shout out
to everybody out there wearing black T shirts

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and looking muscular with their arms cross. I also want to give a shout

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out to everybody out there right now
that is in the armed forces. Thank

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you for doing your part. I
want to give a special shout out to

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everybody that is doing the duty for
us in the States. Your police officers,

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your medical officers. I would say
politicians, but there are a bunch

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of craploading, lying bastards, so
I won't say a shout out to them.

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I want to give a shout out
to everybody right now wearing glasses.

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A shout out to a good friend
of mine right now, Mike A.

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Salinas. I know you're filmed lonely. I know you don't have a woman,

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but I'm thinking about you anyway.
A special shout out to my good

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friends sitting in studio next to you, Tuscanno's looking just as sexy in a

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black shirt. Well, a very
special occasion today, Chang and I appreciate

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the shout out because today we have
in studio a man who has turned into

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like a brother for me by the
name of Mark Hernandez. We have known

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each other since junior high, since
the seventh grade. So a big shout

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out and thank you for John n. Mark. He uh right on the

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plane to be with us. So
Mark, thank you for being Thank you

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man. I want to give a
shout out to all the people on the

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plane today that survived that landing.
Our hearts, our hearts jumped out of

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our chest for a moment there,
I'm inte. John Wayne Airport, Yeah

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yeah, John Wayne Airport has little
doggies. Don't be afraid of the bumpity

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bump ride because remember we gotta fly
over those Indians and those next again,

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so a little so John Wayne Airport, for those of you who don't know,

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it's very small airport. Very nice, very modern, but very short

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runways, so both the takeoff and
the landings are very sharp. But that

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landing is horrible, horrible. You
know what. The John Wayne Airport reminds

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me of Tusky. What the seven
ten Freeway. Why it's like because it

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and the roads all jacked up.
We're gonna take a break when we come

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back. There's more of the madness
here on Back to the Eighties Radio.

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Don't go in, ladies and gentlemen. I'm Shadow Stevens and you must listen

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to Back to the Eighties Radio.
It's the law. Mexican Americas don't like

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to just get into gang fights and
like flowers and music and white girls named

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Debbie Doo. Mexican Americas are named
chat Challin Jemma and have a son in

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law named Jeff. Mexican Americas don't
like to get up early in the morning,

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but they have to, so they
do it real slow. Mexican Americas

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love education, so they go to
night school and they take Spanish and get

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a bea. Mexican Americans love their
nanas and their noos and their ninas and

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their n nos na no. Mexican
Americas don't like to go to the movies

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where the dude has to wear contact
lands. Tomica's blue eyes brown because don't

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make my brown eyes blue. And
that's all I got. Now back to

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good, wholesome, politically correct entertainment. Oops Rock Station No. Back to

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the Eighties with Toscano and Chang.
Welcome back to Back to the Eighties,

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hosted by Toscano and Chang. And
yes, as a wall, this is

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the Chang and we have a childhood
guess of the great Tusky Toscanno. Yes

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he's not Italian, but he is
Latino. And I'm sure the three of

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us kind indulge on some of the
culprints of the eighties. Mark Tiscano,

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welcome, thank you back to the
eighties. I appreciate it. Brother.

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I want to keep a very special
shout out to Kevin Grayden who just joined

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our group, our back to the
Eighties group from Kevin, and a very

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very special shout out to Susan Freeman, who will be interviewing here on the

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show next Friday. So keep your
ears and eyes peeled out for that show.

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So we do have in studio my
buddy from my childhood and we went

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to school in Santa Fe Springs,
and by the way, today, you

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know, Mark lives out of town, so he arrived today by airplane and

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we went out to our old neighborhoods
in the city of Santa Fe Springs.

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We went to visit our high school, our junior high, our old hangout

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places and things like that. It's
funny because whenever I used to like hearing

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YouTube, mart Marta marka Marca would
make fun of me. Good both job

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Mark, I didn't want to Mark. What was your favorite not the Beatles?

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What was what was your favorite band? Mark back when we were kids?

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And what has changed from then to
the lease? I love the rock

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I love rock Man Man Hey like
Hey Donald, do me a favorite Will

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Smith? That guy? Was that
your favorite band? Can I remember?

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Did he do drugs or what?
Yeah? Somebody will Smith that guy?

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All right? So no, but
was that one of your favorite bands?

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Because I remember you and I listened
to a lot of Power one L six

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back then, which was was the
hip was the hip hop station of LA.

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But they also played a lot of
pop, which is yeah. I

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was influenced by my older female cousins
and I listened to a lot of like

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I used to mentioned Duran, Duran
and the here. Yeah, let me

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ask you a question, Mark,
I of the metal and the rock and

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roll. As you can tell by
my golden locks that I as you can

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tell by the hate of other music. You take it easy over there,

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mister, I like poison, I
do, Mark Cinderella, I do.

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Sit there. Mark. Now,
if you are a fan of hip hop

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and really feel the vibe of hip
hop, you have to know in the

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eighties NWA, Public Enemy, Tupac, snoopdo jj Y, the Real Dale.

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But you gotta remember that's late eighties. It doesn't matter. It's still

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the eggs. I know, I
understand. But if you really want to

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do eighties, then you go.
So you want to go at, you

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want to run DMC, you go
a little bit earlier than you boys.

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You really want to go back in
the times where rock metal sucked and joined

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hip hop to create a new wait
Listen to me with Anthrax and Arrowsmith with

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hip hop to create this new vibe. No, brother, I cannot handle

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that. I am going to set
in stone the difference between pure metal and

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pure hip hop. Why Public Enemy? Because there is no truth but the

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truth of the street. You have
to understand that. Now, like our

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Arrow what sugar Hill Gang? Come
on, bro, that that opened up

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the door for a Yeah, I'm
going to go to a backyard party and

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I'm gonna bust out some madness.
I'm gonna bust out some sugar Hill Gang.

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I'm gonna bust out something like that
runs run DMC, and I'm going

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to get sadisfike. No, the
majority of people who were in who were

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where at least where we grew up, and it's got that's also where you

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grew up part of your life as
well. We liked pretty much prison,

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We liked pretty much everything right.
But so going back to the original question,

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who was your favorite band if you
had one, and and has anything

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changed? It was so vast the
music. You find something in hip hop

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that sounds really good in rock,
like I mean even like some of those

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pop bands, like some of those
songs are great. Did you like,

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for example, there's a couple of
bands that I hated all my life.

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I will always hate Rush. Well
that's probably number one, number number two?

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Mark you loved Rush? Right?
Rush? Yeah, Okay, my

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ears have not started bleeding him and
relax. The fifty two, Yeah,

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I hated it when I heard the
song the love Shack Holy Cow, I

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said, these people hate that song
too. So the funny thing is when

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Mark and I used to listen to
the radio. Yeah, he would put

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up the volume loud whenever a certain
song would come on, especially especially who

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sings that song, the fine Young
Cannibals. Oh yeah, but remember their

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hit song she Drives Me Crazy with
anhym of the Songscano. That band sucked.

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Well, it suck to me.
Mark, did you like them?

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No? I did. I just
did it to the Oh yeah, no,

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wonder Hey I like them? Where
you bring up suck song for all

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of us? I love that because
we at back to the eighties, we

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cannot cater to like. Oh I
love that band, they were great.

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No, we are gonna distribute the
hate that we had Tiscano, Duran,

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durand quickly phenomenal. I love Duran
Duran You're now see you because we're from

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the eighties. I can take that. Gifts for fears, I love cheers

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for fear. However, Yeah,
let look, life is about likes and

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dislikes. So Mark chang the Smiths, yes or no? Suck all right,

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Mark? The Smiths are like the
neighbors are like they got white cheats

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in their closets. I can't trust
them, Mark, Mark. Uh the

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rhythmics, Oh, I'm okay with
it, Okay, yes, yes,

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okay, I agree. Great band, all right, right, Mark,

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Mark the rhythmics, lyrically, vocal
wise, dude, you can't beat Annie

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Lennox, you just can't. And
with Dave Stewart her quiet husband. Dude,

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they jam. They were a great
twosome. But I thought they went

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poppy. What do you think,
Mark? I agree with you. Yeah,

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yeah, I think they did good. But I think that after two

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that's it. I wouldn't listen to
them anymore. Just like, let me

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give you an example. You guys
both know, okay, okay, get

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my favorite band of all time Cure. Okay? Is you two right?

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However, there was a time when
you two went all electronics. I hated

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the band when they love the Zoo. You're talking about the Zoo anything that

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they made all electronics. And you
remember this, you two got away from

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what they originally started. And now
they went back to their origins, to

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the way that they started. And
now I him again. You know,

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we go in depth. You know
why they went mainstream? Correct? They

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were held up against on their record
commitment their recording equipment to put something out

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quick. So they did, and
they thought it would be significant for the

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listener and the the you know,
the radio organization that well, they thought

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it was. And they also thought
it was going to be relatable because everybody

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was going everybody was going that way. And if it was rejected, right,

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it was rejected hardcore Okay, oh
oh, it's like you to It's

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like telling Chang if he likes the
cure, is like telling him, would

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you ever slap your mom? That's
how bad it is. Yeah, you

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know what, Mark, I slap
my mom if he made an observation I

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did not apply with and Mark could
God? Mark, I love you.

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I appreciate you coming onto the show
and flying from Vegas to be with us,

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and I appreciate you being the best
friend of my best friend on Back

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to the eighties. But I'm gonna
lay it to you both, guys.

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I'm looking at the screen. Mardo
has a Tiger Woods looking at you look

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like a strip club bouncer, tight
black shirt. You look like a Chollo

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that was kicked out of a gang. But you would still kick ass.

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But I will tell you this,
if you ever bring up the shut my

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face. I will drive down to
LA in six hours and I will slap

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the hell because that guy, all
that guy is a resemblance of the Saw,

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the Little Monkey, the Little Puppet
cycle. Yeah, the Target brand

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tattoo on his face with weak ass
hair. Ridey is bicycle to kill.

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The Cure has got to be the
cure for me dying right away now.

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I gotta tell you now, if
you ask me that question what anywhere,

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I would say yes all the way
and I'll still listen to the Cure.

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I love the Cure because this is
one of the few bands a week that

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have not lost their style and the
voice. The voice is still the same

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now. The look of Quick he
does look like a cast member of the

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Walking Dead. Aside from that,
they are a great band. How can

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you lose the style of being weak? You can't do it, My brothers,

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what is your most favorite band of
the eighties in musical lyrical content that

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helped you get you some tough times? For me particularly, it would be,

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of course my favorite band YouTube YouTube, and it would be the song

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where the Streets Have No Name,
because there was a period in my life

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where we had moved so much.
When I was a little kid, and

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to me, all streets seem like
the same. Well, my cousins used

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to listen to, like Tears for
Fears, depeche Mode, one hit wonder

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type things. Yeah, because I
was around, you know what, j

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Mark, I can identify with Tears
for Fears. Everybody that one song they

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had it on Home Man, that
song hits home. Everybody wants to rule

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the world. Yeah, wants to
rule the world. I mean that song

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alone, I think kind of an
inspider generation, kind of transcended what they

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were all about. And I mean
it was, I mean how it was.

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It was on a TV talk show
host from former s and now Steve,

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you know, even as the fact, I just remember there was another

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song by a band that you of
course hate um of but depeche Mode.

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You see, depeche Mode have has
a song called people or People. So

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that's a great songs. Yes,
people people, So why should it be

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that people should treat each other so
awfully? Oh yeah, dude, that's

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a great, a great tune,
bro that you brought up. Yeah,

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what about you chang? One of
my most favorite songs probably of the eighties

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holds Bear I cry when I hear
it and that's called United by Judas Priest

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put out in eighty one, and
the lyrical content is United, United United,

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we stand united, United, United, We fall to day we have

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lost that insight. Now, my
brothers, you remember during nine to eleven,

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America praised and said we were pulled
together. True, we would let

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nothing divide us. Yeah, hey
man, I've lost faith in our political

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system since nineteen eighty. Yeah,
I'm feeling young, I'm feeling long,

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and I'm feeling strong. I will
say that, but I will say that

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one song is what we need to
get back to. We lie to ourselves

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during nine to eleven, we said
we got each other's back, nothing will

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divide us. Okay, then we
get an election to where opened up the

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doors for division. But you gotta
remember change. A lot of what happened

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in our latest elections before Biden is
all a result of mentality of a long

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history of both the Generation X and
the Boom and the Boomer generation, because

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it's something that's been in the making
for many, many, many decades,

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but it was on hold. It
was kind of on hold. So people

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during the eighties they didn't want to
be seen as racist, although there's always

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been racism so a lot of it
has been thought of that it was gone,

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but in reality it was just suppressed. So people thought, Okay,

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there's no more racism. Our culture, our society has advanced. These are

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the eighties. This is the decade
of indulgence, the decade of excess.

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From here on out, everything is
going to be beautiful. And in the

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future. I remember this. Some
of my teachers in junior high in high

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school used to say, oh,
in the future, in the years two

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thousand and beyond, racism should be
a thing of the past. And the

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problem is that our parents from back
then brought up that way, so therefore

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they taught their kids that way.
Yes, and as time progressed, now

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here comes the group of people that
created this brand. So they create this

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brand and they work on the American
public came to say, you remember that

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stuff that we had suppressed during the
eighties, during the nineties, Well,

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it's actually okay, yeah, exactly, you know what I mean. So

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we can trace it back to both
our generation and beyond our generation way before.

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That makes me think about being raised
by my grandparents. They they were

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see they were born nineteen twenty nine, so they came up in the world

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War two era. They lived in
Watts, but Watts was predominantly all Hispanic

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at the time. Yeah, I
remember they told me that African Americans came

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there from World War Two. When
they docked the ships, they would go

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there, and they told me the
stories, and so little by little they

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went to the outskirt Santa Fe Springs
where they ended up. I was raised

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with a little bit of prejudice because
of them, so I had that in

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me. It wasn' until I got
a little older where I started seeing people

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as as as people were all people, no matter what color, you know.

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And I had to break that on
my own because they put their their

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values and their experiences into into me
being raised by them, and I had

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to break that on my own,
you know, me being grown raised in

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the rassa. But again with my
dad being a alcoholic counselor to guys in

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and out of prison and women,
and my dad being a Brown Beret of

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the seventies during the Civil Rights movement, to where my dad was involved in

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the East La riots. I in
tune saw the prejudice of a surname,

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your name being held against you,
Lord is the way I look. I've

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been beaten by cops push putting incarcerated
for no reason. So I truly attach

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to the struggle of what we've seen
through our three time brains of growing up,

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and I understand that I think we
regressed rather than progressed nowadays. Everything

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that we're suffering today in society is
a result of the upbringing and the brainwashing

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of past generations. And unfortunately,
some people that are so ingrained with this

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brainwashing that they will never learn and
they will teach it to their kids in

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future generations. One of the ways
that we can combat this, it's not

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we're not going to solve it,
but one way to be able to combat

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it is one person at a time, and that's why we hear it back

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to the eighties. Are trying to
do our best to bring smiles to people,

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especially when it's their toughest times.
We were here during COVID and we're

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gonna be here for many, many
more years to come. This is back

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to the eighties. Don't go away. No. If it's totally tubular,

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Hey, this is Laurie Miller from
the first an Original Expose and you're

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listening to Back to the Eighties radio. This is back to the eighties.

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We are back. If you're just
joining us today, we are talking with

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my childhood best friend, and that's
Mark Hernandez. He is coming from out

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of town, of course, from
the exact the city where everything that happens

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there stays there. I won't mention
what city. That's it. We have

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a phone call right now and he
just joined us last week and he's here

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today. Rod. Are you on
the line. Hi, am on the

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line. I've been listening. You
boys are fantastic. I come from an

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era where gay was not the hooray. I'm looking on the screen and who

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is that moscular Mexican sitting next to
you? Hi? Taylor? What's your

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name? Well? Mark, this
is Rod Steel. Rod Steel. Rod

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Rod Steel is chang and my hairstylist, and he would love you know.

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He came today on the show literally
probably, and to let us know that

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that shirt rises on your arms speaking
rises, I'm rising as I look at

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both of you. Wine. I'm
a bad altar boy, so Rod,

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we are drinking organic wine, but
you have called once again. You've called

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us during that so the only thing
organic is marijuana. Every time I cut

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Shang's hair, I swear to God, I'm gonna get high after what falls

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on my plastic. Hi, Tusty, I love the I love the Tiger

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Woods. Had I cut his wife's
hair? Really? Which one? Yes?

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Both? Right now that we have
Rod on the line, do you

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have any shout outs to some family
members that may be listening right now?

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Oh? Yeah, my girl back
in Vegas. Her name's January called her

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Janna. Shout out to her,
Hi Janna. Yeah, her two her

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true kids, Carter and Sky.
Hi, Skarer and Sky. You want

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to fly with me, Rod Steel
one way trip. Rod Steell's gonna let

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me go back to Vegas. My
girlfriend. I'm going to go back like

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you, Mark and your girlfriend's going
to be cleaning up after. Thank you,

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Thank you for calling Rod. That
was Rod Steel. Ladies and gentlemen.

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Once in a while he drops by
because he just can, so we

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have given him access. But yeah, if you just joined us, we'd

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like to remind everybody listening that we
do have a Patreon page that we would

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love for you to help us on
the program. To keep introducing the eighties

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to a new generation. And I
do want to give a special shout out

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to Eka Guzman and also to Susan
who are lately our latest sponsors on back

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to the Eighties Patreon page. So
thank you guys. Rod Steele wants to

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send some type of a hair product. I don't know from aquinit or whatever

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the point ismatic but anyway, so
thank you guys. If you do have

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a topic you'd like us to discuss
here on the show, feel free to

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write us at back to the Eighties
Radio at gmail dot com. We are

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talking about some of the experiences back
in the eighties. We got a little

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political there. We don't like to
do that, but it comes out from

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time to time. Let's talk a
little bit about some of our experiences.

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You know. One of the biggest
things that was very, very popular,

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It's always been popular in school and
that is skipping school. And of course

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the market not want to promote.
No, we're not, we're not.

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We're not promoting it, but we
will mention because you look like Tiger Woods,

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please stay in school. Stay in
school. But I do want to

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mention that there have been more than
one time, maybe a few times or

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maybe more that Mark and I,
as we reminisced today in pass in front

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of our high school, we thought, remember when the day was beautiful?

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And what was our our train of
thought? Mark, it's too beautiful to

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go to school. How could I
possibly be expected to handle school in a

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day like this? Yeah? Right? Who didn't think about that in the

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eighties? Because you got to remember, boys, back in the eighties,

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we can go to a mall get
lost. We can go to on our

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cage crew. We could find a
movie theater that's showing a movie. Nobody

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would look for us. True in
the eighties unless you ran into a security

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guard like we did one time ran
a cops. Please you give them ten

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bucks, tell them to buy a
hot dog on a stick, and they're

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gone. Now, how many ditching
events did you guys go with each other?

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And what was one of the most
favorite ditching extravaganzas that you both went

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on? Because after that, I'll
give you mine. Come on, let's

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you can't for you stuff. What
was the most memorable for you? I

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can tell you mine right away ahead. I'd say that time we went to

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the to the beach on our bikes
and then we ended up at my aunt's

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apartment. Remember she wasn't home.
We went swimming in the pool. The

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people or the people on the pool
that we didn't know, we're having a

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barbecue. They invited us over,
and we're like, why why would we

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go to school? We could have
a day like great food food. How

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old were you guys then? But
the thing is how far? How far

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was that round trip? Like thirty
miles? Yeah, we'd rather ride it

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like thirty miles go to school.
Yeah. And by the way, Mark

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fell off of his bike in the
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I hear this big crash behind us, and I knew what had happened because

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I saw it. Remember, back
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have some drains on the street.
They look like grills, and the front

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tire of the bike, if it
was too thin, it's going inside that

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grill, inside that draining. And
that's exactly what happened. And because we

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were going so fast down the street, he didn't catch it on time,

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and he flipped right over the handlebars
my imitation of Superman, right over the

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handlebars yeah, yep, okay,
right. In nineteen eighty seven, I

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became a parent, you know,
I had my first kid. No.

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In nineteen eighty five, my best
friend was killed on a motorcycle accident and

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I was the last individual to confront
him, argue with him and see him

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before he perished. And it was
all negative. Me and him have harsh

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words. And I gotta tell you, I'll testify. The girl he had

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on the back of his uh Kawasaki
GPC. She was freaking hot and uh

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you know he no, he got
her home and he was on his way

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back to our area when he was
killed. But now now trip on of

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this, he was inebriated on his
Kawasaki GP Back then, you guys remember

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in the eighties, he was killed
on Beverly Boulevard where you turn that twine,

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you know what I mean, before
you get Lee Whittier in to He

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was drunk and he was killed by
a woman in a van who also was

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in Nebria back then with both you
know, both alcohol. But in the

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eighties, I think a lot of
us became unaware and aware at the same

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time of what life really was.
I think a lot of us because of

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our youth kind of shined upon the
devastating factors of life, death, divorced

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abuse, bowling, and we kind
of sunk into our regular, everyday life

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to where, you know, we
were just comfortable being us. But yet

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the casualties of that decade that we
now do see were not as significant to

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some of us as they were to
some of us that were older. How

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do you guys think some of the
casualties, devastating things and factors that we

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saw can kind of coincide or do
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saw and how we dealt with I
think I feel like people are softer now,

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Like I think we could deal with
things better. We had tougher skin

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back then. I think today's kids
are a little softer. They're more isolated

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and sheltered. The kids I know
don't even go outside and play anymore.

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went through, if a kid went through

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that today, I think he would
crumble. To tell you the truth,

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softer, and we were watching every word

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we say. Now no one can
say anything. It's just we were much

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tougher back then. My mom passed
away right before I met Mario and I

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remember me. I remember meet Mario
Los Nagels junior high. We were both

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leaning back in our seat and we
could kind of looked at each other and

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I had I'm like, who's this
duche looking at me? You know what

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I mean, what are you looking
at buddy? And you know, he

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came into my life at a time
like like God sent in him because he

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became my best friend. I felt
like because I had a really tough childhood

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where I had to grow up quick. But my time with Mario, I

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was a kid again. I was
I was having fun, and I know

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Mario was going through his own his
own you know, personal problems with his

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parents and dealing with his saying.
So I really think that we met each

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other like at the right time.
Man, this man means a lot to

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me. I don't mean to make
you cry and make myself cry, but

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yeah, yeah, this he this
man means a lot to me. I

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feel like he saved my childhood,
you know, made me feel like a

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kid again, like I didn't have
to like grow up so quick. Man.

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We had a great time, great
times. Thank you. Yeah,

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I appreciate same here. Well,
I mean, I feel it's it's reciprocal

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because you know, I come from
a divorced family, you know, a

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divorce mom and dad. I'm an
only child. I didn't have brothers or

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sisters. You know, I come
from a single mom that at that time

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I had gone to so many schools
it wasn't even funny. When I went

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to Los Nietos, I had already
gone through I think two or three different

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junior highs and this was only the
seventh grade. Where a normal life for

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a kid should be to go to
the same school all through those three years

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of junior high than the four years
of high school. But I didn't.

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I didn't have that luxury, so
and and and you didn't either, you

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know, you you went through a
lot in chang I know that's that's with

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us as well, and a lot
of people that are listening. And so

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when I met Mark, we had
so many things in common in spite of

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our the difference of the way we
were raised and the different families. But

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at the same time, we had
a lot of things in common. You

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know, we had the Hispanic heritage
behind us, we had the same likes

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and at some of the stuff that
we disagreed on with music and things like

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that, but we had a lot
of stuff, the majority of stuff that

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we always agreed on, and we
were all We were always there to back

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each other up, and that was
so important. And it because I grew

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up without brothers, Mark became that
brother to me. Man. I don't

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want to get emotional. I don't
want to bring this show down, but

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man, you guys have just displayed
exactly what I felt for a friend of

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mine that passed away in nineteen eighty
five, and the significance of friendship and

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what that friendship brought to you,
and that strength that friendship brought to you.

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But not only that, but I'll
go out and say this, during

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my years of growing and finding out
who I was, I drifted to a

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certain type of individuals to high school
that I met on right when I left

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Saint Benedict's. When I enrolled in
Montabau High School from Catholic school, I

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00:36:19.119 --> 00:36:22.320
decided I would not be that guy
that was in that school and I would

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00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:28.000
be something else. So when I
got to high school, I was totally

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something that nobody would recognize. You
know, those three months my hair was

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00:36:32.039 --> 00:36:37.719
grown, I was like heavy metal. What you guys have touched upon.

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Hopefully many of our listeners can identify. But I'm sorry I had to take

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a time out because the chang never
gets emotional, you know that, But

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00:36:49.519 --> 00:36:54.119
that brought a lot of emotion because
it's very reminiscent of my good friend Raymie

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00:36:54.719 --> 00:37:00.559
Randy Barraza. Man, I have
a hard time out. It's understanding how

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00:37:00.639 --> 00:37:07.719
he passed in nineteen eighty five and
that guy you brought me out of the

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00:37:07.840 --> 00:37:13.000
demon. That guy was there,
And I understand where you guys are coming

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00:37:13.039 --> 00:37:19.360
from. What it's like to have
a friend becomes a brother that shares the

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00:37:19.480 --> 00:37:28.000
same similarities as you do in life, feeling alone, feeling rejected, feeling

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00:37:28.159 --> 00:37:35.320
ripped off, and when you embark
upon individuals that feel like you. I'm

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gonna tell you guys right now,
from a neighborhood sense, that's what brotherhood

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and bodio means. When you connect
with somebody emotionally, socially, that brings

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a friendship. I'm talking to you, guys and everybody else listening to us.

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That creates something that time, money
and just greed cannot take away that

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bond, that friendship, that understanding
of both parties or many parties coming from

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the same realm. And I speak
upon this. You guys hit me,

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man, I felt like I felt
like I got hit in the stomach when

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you guys talk and embarked upon that. And I'm sorry to our listeners if

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I lost it, But I understand
because my good friend brought that upon me.

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And in nineteen eighty five he was
killed. I was the last due

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00:38:32.000 --> 00:38:38.159
to see him alive. We got
in a physical altercation into him riding his

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motorcycle to take this hot chick home
as opposed to stay with me. Let

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00:38:45.679 --> 00:38:51.840
me drive you and this chick in
my sister's ban away. You can do

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00:38:51.880 --> 00:38:55.000
whatever you want to do, but
let me get you home safe. He

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00:38:55.119 --> 00:39:00.159
threw a joint at me, hit
me in the face, cussed me out.

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I wanted to hit me. He
left. I never saw him again.

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He died that day. So what
you guys are telling me, I'm

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sorry if they hit me in the
face. People nowadays have to understand we

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are un borrowed time, my brothers, It is not guaranteed whether we live

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00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:27.400
tomorrow tonight. But the one true
essence of life is we remain who we

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are and re remain tight with those
who made us who we are. And

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I'm sitting here and I'm crying like
a sissy, and I'm looking to you

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00:39:38.199 --> 00:39:45.320
guys, and I'm like, man, you guys are the essence of exactly

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00:39:45.679 --> 00:39:52.280
what I believe and exactly what I
hope our show reaches to all those people

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tonight. Never look for tomorrow to
rectify a day. Appreciate what you have

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today, love who you have in
the past and today. You know I'm

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00:40:05.320 --> 00:40:09.880
speaking a little bit. What he
was talking about is I'll talk tomorrow earlier

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00:40:09.920 --> 00:40:16.840
today. Like you have people you
love, people that you don't see for

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00:40:16.880 --> 00:40:20.679
a long time. I haven't seen
Mario for very long, like years go

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00:40:20.800 --> 00:40:23.320
by, and I told him,
you know what, I'm not gonna be

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like, oh, we'll see each
other someday, we'll hang out. No,

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Like I want to tell the listeners, if you have a loved one

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you haven't see, like, reach
out, go visit them, spend time

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with them, because like you said, we're on borrow time. Go see

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00:40:35.159 --> 00:40:37.159
them and have fun with them,
and make talk about your memories, make

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00:40:37.199 --> 00:40:42.000
new memories. Do it, Go
and do it. No more excuses.

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00:40:42.079 --> 00:40:45.480
Just go out and do it and
be with the love the people you love,

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people from your past that changed you, that helped you go and go

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and do that. That's that's my
my little final thought to the listeners here

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00:40:53.559 --> 00:41:00.400
and everyone. We appreciate a brother
and my thoughts and sentiments are exactly the

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00:41:00.440 --> 00:41:04.400
same. And I join you guys
in that. Definitely. I've learned one

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00:41:04.440 --> 00:41:07.880
thing from my wife throughout these many
years, and she's always telling me,

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live for today, live for today, and make it the best day you

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00:41:14.840 --> 00:41:19.760
have ever had, because tomorrow you
just don't know. So love the ones

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who you're with and tonight with you
two fine gentlemen, and I love you

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00:41:23.800 --> 00:41:29.559
guys. And if you're listening and
you haven't spoken to your friends, maybe

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00:41:29.599 --> 00:41:34.519
somebody in the past you love or
or or a family member that you lost

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00:41:34.559 --> 00:41:38.840
touch, we want to encourage you
tonight to make that change and to reach

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00:41:38.880 --> 00:41:43.199
out. Sometimes it's hard for them
to reach out to you. You reach

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00:41:43.199 --> 00:41:45.599
out to them if possible. And
in the meantime, Chang, thank you

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00:41:45.599 --> 00:41:52.480
for coming on the show and for
expressing your passion and your feelings. And

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Mark, thank you, my brother. Love you guys, I love you,

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00:41:55.679 --> 00:42:00.559
and just thank you for taking the
time to take a flight out to

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00:42:00.639 --> 00:42:05.599
come and see to come and see
me and to spend time and hopefully we

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00:42:05.599 --> 00:42:09.440
can do this together as three guys
doing a show one of these days in

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00:42:09.480 --> 00:42:15.760
our old neighborhood right on. Yeah, So thank you guys, and this

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00:42:16.039 --> 00:42:21.920
has been back to the eighties.
I am Tuscano wishing you the very best

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00:42:21.960 --> 00:42:25.440
week. Go tell somebody you haven't
that you love peace, and we'll see

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00:42:25.440 --> 00:42:31.400
you next week. Orna, everybody
out therefore we released you to another fantastic

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00:42:31.480 --> 00:42:36.440
weekend. I want to tell you
I lost my marbles, but I am

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00:42:36.519 --> 00:42:42.159
so glad I lost my marbles with
these two cats, these two holies that

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understand. Remember tomorrow is not promised. Call somebody you love. I bid

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00:42:47.760 --> 00:42:55.119
you all asta la vista, asta
manana asta la weego aria, and to

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00:42:55.320 --> 00:43:00.559
everybody out there, stay lifted,
stay gifted. You is the only way

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00:43:00.599 --> 00:43:08.320
to prosperity. So from Toscato and
the Chang and the gracious Mark from Las

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00:43:08.440 --> 00:43:15.920
Vegas Whoa, we bid you a
good night and we will catch you all

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00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:34.880
next week. Dane, oh me
back wh