April 11, 2022
Lifelong Friendships!


Toscano and Chang talk with a special guest, Mark Hernandez, who met Toscano back in the 7th grade. They talk about some of the challenges, heartaches, and fun times of growing up in the 1980s.
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What point. Welcome everybody. This
is the one and only Back to
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the Radio show. I am Tiscano
from Tiscanno and Chang. Today is a
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very special show because we have a
very special guest in studio. Aside from,
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of course, the ever wondrous man, to whom a lot of people
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call the eighth Wonder of nature here
and back to the eighties, we call
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him the Chang. That's incredible.
I thought it was the seventh Wonder.
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No, you're the eighth wonder,
my friend. Well, maybe I'll move
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up a notch when I find uh
sasquatch out here where I live in an
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undisclosed area yeah, well I thought
I saw him yesterday. Thank you for
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Radio at gmail dot com. Now,
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I want to give a shout out
to everybody out there wearing black T shirts
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and looking muscular with their arms cross. I also want to give a shout
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out to everybody out there right now
that is in the armed forces. Thank
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you for doing your part. I
want to give a special shout out to
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everybody that is doing the duty for
us in the States. Your police officers,
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your medical officers. I would say
politicians, but there are a bunch
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of craploading, lying bastards, so
I won't say a shout out to them.
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I want to give a shout out
to everybody right now wearing glasses.
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A shout out to a good friend
of mine right now, Mike A.
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Salinas. I know you're filmed lonely. I know you don't have a woman,
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but I'm thinking about you anyway.
A special shout out to my good
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friends sitting in studio next to you, Tuscanno's looking just as sexy in a
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black shirt. Well, a very
special occasion today, Chang and I appreciate
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the shout out because today we have
in studio a man who has turned into
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like a brother for me by the
name of Mark Hernandez. We have known
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each other since junior high, since
the seventh grade. So a big shout
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out and thank you for John n. Mark. He uh right on the
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plane to be with us. So
Mark, thank you for being Thank you
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man. I want to give a
shout out to all the people on the
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plane today that survived that landing.
Our hearts, our hearts jumped out of
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our chest for a moment there,
I'm inte. John Wayne Airport, Yeah
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yeah, John Wayne Airport has little
doggies. Don't be afraid of the bumpity
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bump ride because remember we gotta fly
over those Indians and those next again,
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so a little so John Wayne Airport, for those of you who don't know,
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it's very small airport. Very nice, very modern, but very short
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runways, so both the takeoff and
the landings are very sharp. But that
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landing is horrible, horrible. You
know what. The John Wayne Airport reminds
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me of Tusky. What the seven
ten Freeway. Why it's like because it
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and the roads all jacked up.
We're gonna take a break when we come
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back. There's more of the madness
here on Back to the Eighties Radio.
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Don't go in, ladies and gentlemen. I'm Shadow Stevens and you must listen
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to Back to the Eighties Radio.
It's the law. Mexican Americas don't like
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to just get into gang fights and
like flowers and music and white girls named
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Debbie Doo. Mexican Americas are named
chat Challin Jemma and have a son in
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law named Jeff. Mexican Americas don't
like to get up early in the morning,
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but they have to, so they
do it real slow. Mexican Americas
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love education, so they go to
night school and they take Spanish and get
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a bea. Mexican Americans love their
nanas and their noos and their ninas and
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their n nos na no. Mexican
Americas don't like to go to the movies
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where the dude has to wear contact
lands. Tomica's blue eyes brown because don't
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make my brown eyes blue. And
that's all I got. Now back to
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good, wholesome, politically correct entertainment. Oops Rock Station No. Back to
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the Eighties with Toscano and Chang.
Welcome back to Back to the Eighties,
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hosted by Toscano and Chang. And
yes, as a wall, this is
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the Chang and we have a childhood
guess of the great Tusky Toscanno. Yes
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he's not Italian, but he is
Latino. And I'm sure the three of
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us kind indulge on some of the
culprints of the eighties. Mark Tiscano,
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welcome, thank you back to the
eighties. I appreciate it. Brother.
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I want to keep a very special
shout out to Kevin Grayden who just joined
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our group, our back to the
Eighties group from Kevin, and a very
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very special shout out to Susan Freeman, who will be interviewing here on the
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show next Friday. So keep your
ears and eyes peeled out for that show.
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So we do have in studio my
buddy from my childhood and we went
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to school in Santa Fe Springs,
and by the way, today, you
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know, Mark lives out of town, so he arrived today by airplane and
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we went out to our old neighborhoods
in the city of Santa Fe Springs.
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We went to visit our high school, our junior high, our old hangout
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places and things like that. It's
funny because whenever I used to like hearing
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YouTube, mart Marta marka Marca would
make fun of me. Good both job
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Mark, I didn't want to Mark. What was your favorite not the Beatles?
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What was what was your favorite band? Mark back when we were kids?
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And what has changed from then to
the lease? I love the rock
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I love rock Man Man Hey like
Hey Donald, do me a favorite Will
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Smith? That guy? Was that
your favorite band? Can I remember?
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Did he do drugs or what?
Yeah? Somebody will Smith that guy?
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All right? So no, but
was that one of your favorite bands?
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Because I remember you and I listened
to a lot of Power one L six
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back then, which was was the
hip was the hip hop station of LA.
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But they also played a lot of
pop, which is yeah. I
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was influenced by my older female cousins
and I listened to a lot of like
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I used to mentioned Duran, Duran
and the here. Yeah, let me
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ask you a question, Mark,
I of the metal and the rock and
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roll. As you can tell by
my golden locks that I as you can
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tell by the hate of other music. You take it easy over there,
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mister, I like poison, I
do, Mark Cinderella, I do.
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Sit there. Mark. Now,
if you are a fan of hip hop
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and really feel the vibe of hip
hop, you have to know in the
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eighties NWA, Public Enemy, Tupac, snoopdo jj Y, the Real Dale.
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But you gotta remember that's late eighties. It doesn't matter. It's still
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the eggs. I know, I
understand. But if you really want to
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do eighties, then you go.
So you want to go at, you
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want to run DMC, you go
a little bit earlier than you boys.
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You really want to go back in
the times where rock metal sucked and joined
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hip hop to create a new wait
Listen to me with Anthrax and Arrowsmith with
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hip hop to create this new vibe. No, brother, I cannot handle
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that. I am going to set
in stone the difference between pure metal and
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pure hip hop. Why Public Enemy? Because there is no truth but the
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truth of the street. You have
to understand that. Now, like our
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Arrow what sugar Hill Gang? Come
on, bro, that that opened up
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the door for a Yeah, I'm
going to go to a backyard party and
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I'm gonna bust out some madness.
I'm gonna bust out some sugar Hill Gang.
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I'm gonna bust out something like that
runs run DMC, and I'm going
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to get sadisfike. No, the
majority of people who were in who were
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where at least where we grew up, and it's got that's also where you
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grew up part of your life as
well. We liked pretty much prison,
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We liked pretty much everything right.
But so going back to the original question,
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who was your favorite band if you
had one, and and has anything
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changed? It was so vast the
music. You find something in hip hop
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that sounds really good in rock,
like I mean even like some of those
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pop bands, like some of those
songs are great. Did you like,
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for example, there's a couple of
bands that I hated all my life.
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I will always hate Rush. Well
that's probably number one, number number two?
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Mark you loved Rush? Right?
Rush? Yeah, Okay, my
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ears have not started bleeding him and
relax. The fifty two, Yeah,
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I hated it when I heard the
song the love Shack Holy Cow, I
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said, these people hate that song
too. So the funny thing is when
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Mark and I used to listen to
the radio. Yeah, he would put
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up the volume loud whenever a certain
song would come on, especially especially who
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sings that song, the fine Young
Cannibals. Oh yeah, but remember their
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hit song she Drives Me Crazy with
anhym of the Songscano. That band sucked.
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Well, it suck to me.
Mark, did you like them?
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No? I did. I just
did it to the Oh yeah, no,
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wonder Hey I like them? Where
you bring up suck song for all
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of us? I love that because
we at back to the eighties, we
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cannot cater to like. Oh I
love that band, they were great.
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No, we are gonna distribute the
hate that we had Tiscano, Duran,
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durand quickly phenomenal. I love Duran
Duran You're now see you because we're from
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the eighties. I can take that. Gifts for fears, I love cheers
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for fear. However, Yeah,
let look, life is about likes and
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dislikes. So Mark chang the Smiths, yes or no? Suck all right,
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Mark? The Smiths are like the
neighbors are like they got white cheats
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in their closets. I can't trust
them, Mark, Mark. Uh the
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rhythmics, Oh, I'm okay with
it, Okay, yes, yes,
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okay, I agree. Great band, all right, right, Mark,
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Mark the rhythmics, lyrically, vocal
wise, dude, you can't beat Annie
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Lennox, you just can't. And
with Dave Stewart her quiet husband. Dude,
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they jam. They were a great
twosome. But I thought they went
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poppy. What do you think,
Mark? I agree with you. Yeah,
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yeah, I think they did good. But I think that after two
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that's it. I wouldn't listen to
them anymore. Just like, let me
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give you an example. You guys
both know, okay, okay, get
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my favorite band of all time Cure. Okay? Is you two right?
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However, there was a time when
you two went all electronics. I hated
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the band when they love the Zoo. You're talking about the Zoo anything that
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they made all electronics. And you
remember this, you two got away from
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what they originally started. And now
they went back to their origins, to
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the way that they started. And
now I him again. You know,
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we go in depth. You know
why they went mainstream? Correct? They
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were held up against on their record
commitment their recording equipment to put something out
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quick. So they did, and
they thought it would be significant for the
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listener and the the you know,
the radio organization that well, they thought
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it was. And they also thought
it was going to be relatable because everybody
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was going everybody was going that way. And if it was rejected, right,
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it was rejected hardcore Okay, oh
oh, it's like you to It's
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like telling Chang if he likes the
cure, is like telling him, would
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you ever slap your mom? That's
how bad it is. Yeah, you
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know what, Mark, I slap
my mom if he made an observation I
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did not apply with and Mark could
God? Mark, I love you.
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I appreciate you coming onto the show
and flying from Vegas to be with us,
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and I appreciate you being the best
friend of my best friend on Back
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to the eighties. But I'm gonna
lay it to you both, guys.
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I'm looking at the screen. Mardo
has a Tiger Woods looking at you look
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like a strip club bouncer, tight
black shirt. You look like a Chollo
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that was kicked out of a gang. But you would still kick ass.
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But I will tell you this,
if you ever bring up the shut my
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face. I will drive down to
LA in six hours and I will slap
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the hell because that guy, all
that guy is a resemblance of the Saw,
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the Little Monkey, the Little Puppet
cycle. Yeah, the Target brand
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tattoo on his face with weak ass
hair. Ridey is bicycle to kill.
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The Cure has got to be the
cure for me dying right away now.
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I gotta tell you now, if
you ask me that question what anywhere,
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I would say yes all the way
and I'll still listen to the Cure.
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I love the Cure because this is
one of the few bands a week that
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have not lost their style and the
voice. The voice is still the same
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now. The look of Quick he
does look like a cast member of the
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Walking Dead. Aside from that,
they are a great band. How can
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you lose the style of being weak? You can't do it, My brothers,
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what is your most favorite band of
the eighties in musical lyrical content that
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helped you get you some tough times? For me particularly, it would be,
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of course my favorite band YouTube YouTube, and it would be the song
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where the Streets Have No Name,
because there was a period in my life
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where we had moved so much.
When I was a little kid, and
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to me, all streets seem like
the same. Well, my cousins used
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to listen to, like Tears for
Fears, depeche Mode, one hit wonder
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type things. Yeah, because I
was around, you know what, j
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Mark, I can identify with Tears
for Fears. Everybody that one song they
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had it on Home Man, that
song hits home. Everybody wants to rule
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the world. Yeah, wants to
rule the world. I mean that song
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alone, I think kind of an
inspider generation, kind of transcended what they
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were all about. And I mean
it was, I mean how it was.
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It was on a TV talk show
host from former s and now Steve,
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you know, even as the fact, I just remember there was another
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song by a band that you of
course hate um of but depeche Mode.
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You see, depeche Mode have has
a song called people or People. So
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that's a great songs. Yes,
people people, So why should it be
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that people should treat each other so
awfully? Oh yeah, dude, that's
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a great, a great tune,
bro that you brought up. Yeah,
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what about you chang? One of
my most favorite songs probably of the eighties
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holds Bear I cry when I hear
it and that's called United by Judas Priest
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put out in eighty one, and
the lyrical content is United, United United,
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we stand united, United, United, We fall to day we have
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lost that insight. Now, my
brothers, you remember during nine to eleven,
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America praised and said we were pulled
together. True, we would let
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nothing divide us. Yeah, hey
man, I've lost faith in our political
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system since nineteen eighty. Yeah,
I'm feeling young, I'm feeling long,
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and I'm feeling strong. I will
say that, but I will say that
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one song is what we need to
get back to. We lie to ourselves
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during nine to eleven, we said
we got each other's back, nothing will
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divide us. Okay, then we
get an election to where opened up the
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doors for division. But you gotta
remember change. A lot of what happened
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in our latest elections before Biden is
all a result of mentality of a long
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history of both the Generation X and
the Boom and the Boomer generation, because
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it's something that's been in the making
for many, many, many decades,
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but it was on hold. It
was kind of on hold. So people
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during the eighties they didn't want to
be seen as racist, although there's always
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been racism so a lot of it
has been thought of that it was gone,
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but in reality it was just suppressed. So people thought, Okay,
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there's no more racism. Our culture, our society has advanced. These are
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the eighties. This is the decade
of indulgence, the decade of excess.
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From here on out, everything is
going to be beautiful. And in the
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future. I remember this. Some
of my teachers in junior high in high
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school used to say, oh,
in the future, in the years two
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thousand and beyond, racism should be
a thing of the past. And the
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problem is that our parents from back
then brought up that way, so therefore
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they taught their kids that way.
Yes, and as time progressed, now
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here comes the group of people that
created this brand. So they create this
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brand and they work on the American
public came to say, you remember that
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stuff that we had suppressed during the
eighties, during the nineties, Well,
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it's actually okay, yeah, exactly, you know what I mean. So
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we can trace it back to both
our generation and beyond our generation way before.
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That makes me think about being raised
by my grandparents. They they were
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see they were born nineteen twenty nine, so they came up in the world
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War two era. They lived in
Watts, but Watts was predominantly all Hispanic
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at the time. Yeah, I
remember they told me that African Americans came
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there from World War Two. When
they docked the ships, they would go
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there, and they told me the
stories, and so little by little they
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went to the outskirt Santa Fe Springs
where they ended up. I was raised
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with a little bit of prejudice because
of them, so I had that in
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me. It wasn' until I got
a little older where I started seeing people
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as as as people were all people, no matter what color, you know.
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And I had to break that on
my own because they put their their
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values and their experiences into into me
being raised by them, and I had
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to break that on my own,
you know, me being grown raised in
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the rassa. But again with my
dad being a alcoholic counselor to guys in
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and out of prison and women,
and my dad being a Brown Beret of
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the seventies during the Civil Rights movement, to where my dad was involved in
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the East La riots. I in
tune saw the prejudice of a surname,
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your name being held against you,
Lord is the way I look. I've
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been beaten by cops push putting incarcerated
for no reason. So I truly attach
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to the struggle of what we've seen
through our three time brains of growing up,
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and I understand that I think we
regressed rather than progressed nowadays. Everything
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that we're suffering today in society is
a result of the upbringing and the brainwashing
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of past generations. And unfortunately,
some people that are so ingrained with this
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brainwashing that they will never learn and
they will teach it to their kids in
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future generations. One of the ways
that we can combat this, it's not
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we're not going to solve it,
but one way to be able to combat
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it is one person at a time, and that's why we hear it back
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to the eighties. Are trying to
do our best to bring smiles to people,
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especially when it's their toughest times.
We were here during COVID and we're
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gonna be here for many, many
more years to come. This is back
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to the eighties. Don't go away. No. If it's totally tubular,
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red or awesome, it's on.
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Hey, this is Laurie Miller from
the first an Original Expose and you're
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listening to Back to the Eighties radio. This is back to the eighties.
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We are back. If you're just
joining us today, we are talking with
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my childhood best friend, and that's
Mark Hernandez. He is coming from out
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of town, of course, from
the exact the city where everything that happens
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there stays there. I won't mention
what city. That's it. We have
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a phone call right now and he
just joined us last week and he's here
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today. Rod. Are you on
the line. Hi, am on the
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line. I've been listening. You
boys are fantastic. I come from an
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era where gay was not the hooray. I'm looking on the screen and who
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is that moscular Mexican sitting next to
you? Hi? Taylor? What's your
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name? Well? Mark, this
is Rod Steel. Rod Steel. Rod
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Rod Steel is chang and my hairstylist, and he would love you know.
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He came today on the show literally
probably, and to let us know that
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that shirt rises on your arms speaking
rises, I'm rising as I look at
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both of you. Wine. I'm
a bad altar boy, so Rod,
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we are drinking organic wine, but
you have called once again. You've called
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us during that so the only thing
organic is marijuana. Every time I cut
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Shang's hair, I swear to God, I'm gonna get high after what falls
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on my plastic. Hi, Tusty, I love the I love the Tiger
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Woods. Had I cut his wife's
hair? Really? Which one? Yes?
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Both? Right now that we have
Rod on the line, do you
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have any shout outs to some family
members that may be listening right now?
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Oh? Yeah, my girl back
in Vegas. Her name's January called her
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Janna. Shout out to her,
Hi Janna. Yeah, her two her
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true kids, Carter and Sky.
Hi, Skarer and Sky. You want
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to fly with me, Rod Steel
one way trip. Rod Steell's gonna let
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me go back to Vegas. My
girlfriend. I'm going to go back like
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you, Mark and your girlfriend's going
to be cleaning up after. Thank you,
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Thank you for calling Rod. That
was Rod Steel. Ladies and gentlemen.
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Once in a while he drops by
because he just can, so we
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have given him access. But yeah, if you just joined us, we'd
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like to remind everybody listening that we
do have a Patreon page that we would
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love for you to help us on
the program. To keep introducing the eighties
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to a new generation. And I
do want to give a special shout out
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to Eka Guzman and also to Susan
who are lately our latest sponsors on back
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to the Eighties Patreon page. So
thank you guys. Rod Steele wants to
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send some type of a hair product. I don't know from aquinit or whatever
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the point ismatic but anyway, so
thank you guys. If you do have
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a topic you'd like us to discuss
here on the show, feel free to
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write us at back to the Eighties
Radio at gmail dot com. We are
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talking about some of the experiences back
in the eighties. We got a little
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political there. We don't like to
do that, but it comes out from
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time to time. Let's talk a
little bit about some of our experiences.
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You know. One of the biggest
things that was very, very popular,
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It's always been popular in school and
that is skipping school. And of course
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the market not want to promote.
No, we're not, we're not.
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We're not promoting it, but we
will mention because you look like Tiger Woods,
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please stay in school. Stay in
school. But I do want to
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mention that there have been more than
one time, maybe a few times or
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maybe more that Mark and I,
as we reminisced today in pass in front
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of our high school, we thought, remember when the day was beautiful?
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And what was our our train of
thought? Mark, it's too beautiful to
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go to school. How could I
possibly be expected to handle school in a
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day like this? Yeah? Right? Who didn't think about that in the
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eighties? Because you got to remember, boys, back in the eighties,
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we can go to a mall get
lost. We can go to on our
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cage crew. We could find a
movie theater that's showing a movie. Nobody
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would look for us. True in
the eighties unless you ran into a security
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guard like we did one time ran
a cops. Please you give them ten
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bucks, tell them to buy a
hot dog on a stick, and they're
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gone. Now, how many ditching
events did you guys go with each other?
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And what was one of the most
favorite ditching extravaganzas that you both went
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on? Because after that, I'll
give you mine. Come on, let's
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you can't for you stuff. What
was the most memorable for you? I
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can tell you mine right away ahead. I'd say that time we went to
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the to the beach on our bikes
and then we ended up at my aunt's
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apartment. Remember she wasn't home.
We went swimming in the pool. The
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people or the people on the pool
that we didn't know, we're having a
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barbecue. They invited us over,
and we're like, why why would we
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go to school? We could have
a day like great food food. How
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old were you guys then? But
the thing is how far? How far
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was that round trip? Like thirty
miles? Yeah, we'd rather ride it
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like thirty miles go to school.
Yeah. And by the way, Mark
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fell off of his bike in the
middle of the Beach Boulevard on the street.
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So I was riding ahead of him, and all of a sudden,
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I hear this big crash behind us, and I knew what had happened because
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I saw it. Remember, back
in the eighties, very popular was to
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have some drains on the street.
They look like grills, and the front
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tire of the bike, if it
was too thin, it's going inside that
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grill, inside that draining. And
that's exactly what happened. And because we
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were going so fast down the street, he didn't catch it on time,
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and he flipped right over the handlebars
my imitation of Superman, right over the
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handlebars yeah, yep, okay,
right. In nineteen eighty seven, I
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became a parent, you know,
I had my first kid. No.
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In nineteen eighty five, my best
friend was killed on a motorcycle accident and
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I was the last individual to confront
him, argue with him and see him
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before he perished. And it was
all negative. Me and him have harsh
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words. And I gotta tell you, I'll testify. The girl he had
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on the back of his uh Kawasaki
GPC. She was freaking hot and uh
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you know he no, he got
her home and he was on his way
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back to our area when he was
killed. But now now trip on of
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this, he was inebriated on his
Kawasaki GP Back then, you guys remember
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in the eighties, he was killed
on Beverly Boulevard where you turn that twine,
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you know what I mean, before
you get Lee Whittier in to He
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was drunk and he was killed by
a woman in a van who also was
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in Nebria back then with both you
know, both alcohol. But in the
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eighties, I think a lot of
us became unaware and aware at the same
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time of what life really was.
I think a lot of us because of
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our youth kind of shined upon the
devastating factors of life, death, divorced
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abuse, bowling, and we kind
of sunk into our regular, everyday life
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to where, you know, we
were just comfortable being us. But yet
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the casualties of that decade that we
now do see were not as significant to
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some of us as they were to
some of us that were older. How
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do you guys think some of the
casualties, devastating things and factors that we
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saw can kind of coincide or do
you think they're worse nowadays to what we
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saw and how we dealt with I
think I feel like people are softer now,
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Like I think we could deal with
things better. We had tougher skin
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back then. I think today's kids
are a little softer. They're more isolated
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and sheltered. The kids I know
don't even go outside and play anymore.
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You know, I think what we
went through, if a kid went through
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that today, I think he would
crumble. To tell you the truth,
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Yeah, I mean there's so much
softer, and we were watching every word
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we say. Now no one can
say anything. It's just we were much
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tougher back then. My mom passed
away right before I met Mario and I
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remember me. I remember meet Mario
Los Nagels junior high. We were both
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leaning back in our seat and we
could kind of looked at each other and
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I had I'm like, who's this
duche looking at me? You know what
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I mean, what are you looking
at buddy? And you know, he
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came into my life at a time
like like God sent in him because he
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became my best friend. I felt
like because I had a really tough childhood
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where I had to grow up quick. But my time with Mario, I
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was a kid again. I was
I was having fun, and I know
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Mario was going through his own his
own you know, personal problems with his
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parents and dealing with his saying.
So I really think that we met each
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other like at the right time.
Man, this man means a lot to
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me. I don't mean to make
you cry and make myself cry, but
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yeah, yeah, this he this
man means a lot to me. I
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feel like he saved my childhood,
you know, made me feel like a
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kid again, like I didn't have
to like grow up so quick. Man.
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We had a great time, great
times. Thank you. Yeah,
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I appreciate same here. Well,
I mean, I feel it's it's reciprocal
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because you know, I come from
a divorced family, you know, a
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divorce mom and dad. I'm an
only child. I didn't have brothers or
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sisters. You know, I come
from a single mom that at that time
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I had gone to so many schools
it wasn't even funny. When I went
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to Los Nietos, I had already
gone through I think two or three different
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junior highs and this was only the
seventh grade. Where a normal life for
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a kid should be to go to
the same school all through those three years
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of junior high than the four years
of high school. But I didn't.
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I didn't have that luxury, so
and and and you didn't either, you
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know, you you went through a
lot in chang I know that's that's with
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us as well, and a lot
of people that are listening. And so
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when I met Mark, we had
so many things in common in spite of
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our the difference of the way we
were raised and the different families. But
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at the same time, we had
a lot of things in common. You
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know, we had the Hispanic heritage
behind us, we had the same likes
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and at some of the stuff that
we disagreed on with music and things like
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that, but we had a lot
of stuff, the majority of stuff that
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we always agreed on, and we
were all We were always there to back
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each other up, and that was
so important. And it because I grew
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up without brothers, Mark became that
brother to me. Man. I don't
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want to get emotional. I don't
want to bring this show down, but
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man, you guys have just displayed
exactly what I felt for a friend of
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mine that passed away in nineteen eighty
five, and the significance of friendship and
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what that friendship brought to you,
and that strength that friendship brought to you.
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But not only that, but I'll
go out and say this, during
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my years of growing and finding out
who I was, I drifted to a
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certain type of individuals to high school
that I met on right when I left
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Saint Benedict's. When I enrolled in
Montabau High School from Catholic school, I
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decided I would not be that guy
that was in that school and I would
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be something else. So when I
got to high school, I was totally
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something that nobody would recognize. You
know, those three months my hair was
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grown, I was like heavy metal. What you guys have touched upon.
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Hopefully many of our listeners can identify. But I'm sorry I had to take
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a time out because the chang never
gets emotional, you know that, But
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that brought a lot of emotion because
it's very reminiscent of my good friend Raymie
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Randy Barraza. Man, I have
a hard time out. It's understanding how
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he passed in nineteen eighty five and
that guy you brought me out of the
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demon. That guy was there,
And I understand where you guys are coming
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from. What it's like to have
a friend becomes a brother that shares the
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same similarities as you do in life, feeling alone, feeling rejected, feeling
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ripped off, and when you embark
upon individuals that feel like you. I'm
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gonna tell you guys right now,
from a neighborhood sense, that's what brotherhood
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and bodio means. When you connect
with somebody emotionally, socially, that brings
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a friendship. I'm talking to you, guys and everybody else listening to us.
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That creates something that time, money
and just greed cannot take away that
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bond, that friendship, that understanding
of both parties or many parties coming from
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the same realm. And I speak
upon this. You guys hit me,
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man, I felt like I felt
like I got hit in the stomach when
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you guys talk and embarked upon that. And I'm sorry to our listeners if
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I lost it, But I understand
because my good friend brought that upon me.
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And in nineteen eighty five he was
killed. I was the last due
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to see him alive. We got
in a physical altercation into him riding his
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motorcycle to take this hot chick home
as opposed to stay with me. Let
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me drive you and this chick in
my sister's ban away. You can do
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whatever you want to do, but
let me get you home safe. He
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threw a joint at me, hit
me in the face, cussed me out.
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I wanted to hit me. He
left. I never saw him again.
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He died that day. So what
you guys are telling me, I'm
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sorry if they hit me in the
face. People nowadays have to understand we
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are un borrowed time, my brothers, It is not guaranteed whether we live
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tomorrow tonight. But the one true
essence of life is we remain who we
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are and re remain tight with those
who made us who we are. And
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I'm sitting here and I'm crying like
a sissy, and I'm looking to you
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guys, and I'm like, man, you guys are the essence of exactly
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what I believe and exactly what I
hope our show reaches to all those people
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tonight. Never look for tomorrow to
rectify a day. Appreciate what you have
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today, love who you have in
the past and today. You know I'm
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speaking a little bit. What he
was talking about is I'll talk tomorrow earlier
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today. Like you have people you
love, people that you don't see for
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a long time. I haven't seen
Mario for very long, like years go
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by, and I told him,
you know what, I'm not gonna be
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like, oh, we'll see each
other someday, we'll hang out. No,
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Like I want to tell the listeners, if you have a loved one
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you haven't see, like, reach
out, go visit them, spend time
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with them, because like you said, we're on borrow time. Go see
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them and have fun with them,
and make talk about your memories, make
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new memories. Do it, Go
and do it. No more excuses.
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Just go out and do it and
be with the love the people you love,
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people from your past that changed you, that helped you go and go
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and do that. That's that's my
my little final thought to the listeners here
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and everyone. We appreciate a brother
and my thoughts and sentiments are exactly the
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same. And I join you guys
in that. Definitely. I've learned one
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thing from my wife throughout these many
years, and she's always telling me,
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live for today, live for today, and make it the best day you
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have ever had, because tomorrow you
just don't know. So love the ones
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who you're with and tonight with you
two fine gentlemen, and I love you
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guys. And if you're listening and
you haven't spoken to your friends, maybe
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somebody in the past you love or
or or a family member that you lost
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touch, we want to encourage you
tonight to make that change and to reach
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out. Sometimes it's hard for them
to reach out to you. You reach
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out to them if possible. And
in the meantime, Chang, thank you
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for coming on the show and for
expressing your passion and your feelings. And
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Mark, thank you, my brother. Love you guys, I love you,
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and just thank you for taking the
time to take a flight out to
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come and see to come and see
me and to spend time and hopefully we
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can do this together as three guys
doing a show one of these days in
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our old neighborhood right on. Yeah, So thank you guys, and this
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has been back to the eighties.
I am Tuscano wishing you the very best
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week. Go tell somebody you haven't
that you love peace, and we'll see
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you next week. Orna, everybody
out therefore we released you to another fantastic
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weekend. I want to tell you
I lost my marbles, but I am
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so glad I lost my marbles with
these two cats, these two holies that
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understand. Remember tomorrow is not promised. Call somebody you love. I bid
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you all asta la vista, asta
manana asta la weego aria, and to
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everybody out there, stay lifted,
stay gifted. You is the only way
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to prosperity. So from Toscato and
the Chang and the gracious Mark from Las
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Vegas Whoa, we bid you a
good night and we will catch you all
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next week. Dane, oh me
back wh
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What point. Welcome everybody. This
is the one and only Back to
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the Radio show. I am Tiscano
from Tiscanno and Chang. Today is a
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very special show because we have a
very special guest in studio. Aside from,
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of course, the ever wondrous man, to whom a lot of people
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call the eighth Wonder of nature here
and back to the eighties, we call
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him the Chang. That's incredible.
I thought it was the seventh Wonder.
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No, you're the eighth wonder,
my friend. Well, maybe I'll move
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up a notch when I find uh
sasquatch out here where I live in an
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undisclosed area yeah, well I thought
I saw him yesterday. Thank you for
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joining us today on another edition of
Back to the Eighties Radio. Reminding you
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guys can now visit us our radio
page, which is k Hits ninety two
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visit us two five dot com. If
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can write us in at back the
Number two the Eighties Radio at gmail dot
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com. That's Back to the Eighties
Radio at gmail dot com. Now,
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I want to give a shout out
to everybody out there wearing black T shirts
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and looking muscular with their arms cross. I also want to give a shout
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out to everybody out there right now
that is in the armed forces. Thank
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you for doing your part. I
want to give a special shout out to
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everybody that is doing the duty for
us in the States. Your police officers,
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your medical officers. I would say
politicians, but there are a bunch
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of craploading, lying bastards, so
I won't say a shout out to them.
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I want to give a shout out
to everybody right now wearing glasses.
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A shout out to a good friend
of mine right now, Mike A.
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Salinas. I know you're filmed lonely. I know you don't have a woman,
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but I'm thinking about you anyway.
A special shout out to my good
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friends sitting in studio next to you, Tuscanno's looking just as sexy in a
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black shirt. Well, a very
special occasion today, Chang and I appreciate
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the shout out because today we have
in studio a man who has turned into
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like a brother for me by the
name of Mark Hernandez. We have known
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each other since junior high, since
the seventh grade. So a big shout
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out and thank you for John n. Mark. He uh right on the
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plane to be with us. So
Mark, thank you for being Thank you
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man. I want to give a
shout out to all the people on the
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plane today that survived that landing.
Our hearts, our hearts jumped out of
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our chest for a moment there,
I'm inte. John Wayne Airport, Yeah
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yeah, John Wayne Airport has little
doggies. Don't be afraid of the bumpity
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bump ride because remember we gotta fly
over those Indians and those next again,
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so a little so John Wayne Airport, for those of you who don't know,
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it's very small airport. Very nice, very modern, but very short
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runways, so both the takeoff and
the landings are very sharp. But that
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landing is horrible, horrible. You
know what. The John Wayne Airport reminds
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me of Tusky. What the seven
ten Freeway. Why it's like because it
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and the roads all jacked up.
We're gonna take a break when we come
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back. There's more of the madness
here on Back to the Eighties Radio.
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Don't go in, ladies and gentlemen. I'm Shadow Stevens and you must listen
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to Back to the Eighties Radio.
It's the law. Mexican Americas don't like
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to just get into gang fights and
like flowers and music and white girls named
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Debbie Doo. Mexican Americas are named
chat Challin Jemma and have a son in
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law named Jeff. Mexican Americas don't
like to get up early in the morning,
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but they have to, so they
do it real slow. Mexican Americas
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love education, so they go to
night school and they take Spanish and get
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a bea. Mexican Americans love their
nanas and their noos and their ninas and
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their n nos na no. Mexican
Americas don't like to go to the movies
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where the dude has to wear contact
lands. Tomica's blue eyes brown because don't
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make my brown eyes blue. And
that's all I got. Now back to
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good, wholesome, politically correct entertainment. Oops Rock Station No. Back to
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the Eighties with Toscano and Chang.
Welcome back to Back to the Eighties,
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hosted by Toscano and Chang. And
yes, as a wall, this is
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the Chang and we have a childhood
guess of the great Tusky Toscanno. Yes
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he's not Italian, but he is
Latino. And I'm sure the three of
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us kind indulge on some of the
culprints of the eighties. Mark Tiscano,
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welcome, thank you back to the
eighties. I appreciate it. Brother.
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I want to keep a very special
shout out to Kevin Grayden who just joined
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our group, our back to the
Eighties group from Kevin, and a very
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very special shout out to Susan Freeman, who will be interviewing here on the
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show next Friday. So keep your
ears and eyes peeled out for that show.
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So we do have in studio my
buddy from my childhood and we went
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to school in Santa Fe Springs,
and by the way, today, you
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know, Mark lives out of town, so he arrived today by airplane and
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we went out to our old neighborhoods
in the city of Santa Fe Springs.
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We went to visit our high school, our junior high, our old hangout
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places and things like that. It's
funny because whenever I used to like hearing
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YouTube, mart Marta marka Marca would
make fun of me. Good both job
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Mark, I didn't want to Mark. What was your favorite not the Beatles?
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What was what was your favorite band? Mark back when we were kids?
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And what has changed from then to
the lease? I love the rock
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I love rock Man Man Hey like
Hey Donald, do me a favorite Will
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Smith? That guy? Was that
your favorite band? Can I remember?
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Did he do drugs or what?
Yeah? Somebody will Smith that guy?
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All right? So no, but
was that one of your favorite bands?
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Because I remember you and I listened
to a lot of Power one L six
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back then, which was was the
hip was the hip hop station of LA.
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But they also played a lot of
pop, which is yeah. I
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was influenced by my older female cousins
and I listened to a lot of like
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I used to mentioned Duran, Duran
and the here. Yeah, let me
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ask you a question, Mark,
I of the metal and the rock and
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roll. As you can tell by
my golden locks that I as you can
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tell by the hate of other music. You take it easy over there,
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mister, I like poison, I
do, Mark Cinderella, I do.
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Sit there. Mark. Now,
if you are a fan of hip hop
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and really feel the vibe of hip
hop, you have to know in the
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eighties NWA, Public Enemy, Tupac, snoopdo jj Y, the Real Dale.
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the eggs. I know, I
understand. But if you really want to
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do eighties, then you go.
So you want to go at, you
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want to run DMC, you go
a little bit earlier than you boys.
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You really want to go back in
the times where rock metal sucked and joined
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hip hop to create a new wait
Listen to me with Anthrax and Arrowsmith with
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hip hop to create this new vibe. No, brother, I cannot handle
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that. I am going to set
in stone the difference between pure metal and
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pure hip hop. Why Public Enemy? Because there is no truth but the
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truth of the street. You have
to understand that. Now, like our
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Arrow what sugar Hill Gang? Come
on, bro, that that opened up
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the door for a Yeah, I'm
going to go to a backyard party and
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I'm gonna bust out some madness.
I'm gonna bust out some sugar Hill Gang.
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I'm gonna bust out something like that
runs run DMC, and I'm going
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to get sadisfike. No, the
majority of people who were in who were
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where at least where we grew up, and it's got that's also where you
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grew up part of your life as
well. We liked pretty much prison,
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We liked pretty much everything right.
But so going back to the original question,
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who was your favorite band if you
had one, and and has anything
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changed? It was so vast the
music. You find something in hip hop
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that sounds really good in rock,
like I mean even like some of those
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pop bands, like some of those
songs are great. Did you like,
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for example, there's a couple of
bands that I hated all my life.
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I will always hate Rush. Well
that's probably number one, number number two?
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Mark you loved Rush? Right?
Rush? Yeah, Okay, my
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ears have not started bleeding him and
relax. The fifty two, Yeah,
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I hated it when I heard the
song the love Shack Holy Cow, I
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said, these people hate that song
too. So the funny thing is when
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Mark and I used to listen to
the radio. Yeah, he would put
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up the volume loud whenever a certain
song would come on, especially especially who
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sings that song, the fine Young
Cannibals. Oh yeah, but remember their
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hit song she Drives Me Crazy with
anhym of the Songscano. That band sucked.
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Well, it suck to me.
Mark, did you like them?
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No? I did. I just
did it to the Oh yeah, no,
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wonder Hey I like them? Where
you bring up suck song for all
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of us? I love that because
we at back to the eighties, we
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cannot cater to like. Oh I
love that band, they were great.
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No, we are gonna distribute the
hate that we had Tiscano, Duran,
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durand quickly phenomenal. I love Duran
Duran You're now see you because we're from
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the eighties. I can take that. Gifts for fears, I love cheers
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for fear. However, Yeah,
let look, life is about likes and
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dislikes. So Mark chang the Smiths, yes or no? Suck all right,
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Mark? The Smiths are like the
neighbors are like they got white cheats
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in their closets. I can't trust
them, Mark, Mark. Uh the
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rhythmics, Oh, I'm okay with
it, Okay, yes, yes,
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okay, I agree. Great band, all right, right, Mark,
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Mark the rhythmics, lyrically, vocal
wise, dude, you can't beat Annie
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Lennox, you just can't. And
with Dave Stewart her quiet husband. Dude,
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they jam. They were a great
twosome. But I thought they went
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poppy. What do you think,
Mark? I agree with you. Yeah,
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yeah, I think they did good. But I think that after two
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that's it. I wouldn't listen to
them anymore. Just like, let me
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give you an example. You guys
both know, okay, okay, get
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my favorite band of all time Cure. Okay? Is you two right?
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However, there was a time when
you two went all electronics. I hated
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the band when they love the Zoo. You're talking about the Zoo anything that
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they made all electronics. And you
remember this, you two got away from
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what they originally started. And now
they went back to their origins, to
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the way that they started. And
now I him again. You know,
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we go in depth. You know
why they went mainstream? Correct? They
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were held up against on their record
commitment their recording equipment to put something out
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quick. So they did, and
they thought it would be significant for the
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listener and the the you know,
the radio organization that well, they thought
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it was. And they also thought
it was going to be relatable because everybody
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was going everybody was going that way. And if it was rejected, right,
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it was rejected hardcore Okay, oh
oh, it's like you to It's
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like telling Chang if he likes the
cure, is like telling him, would
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you ever slap your mom? That's
how bad it is. Yeah, you
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know what, Mark, I slap
my mom if he made an observation I
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did not apply with and Mark could
God? Mark, I love you.
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I appreciate you coming onto the show
and flying from Vegas to be with us,
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and I appreciate you being the best
friend of my best friend on Back
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to the eighties. But I'm gonna
lay it to you both, guys.
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I'm looking at the screen. Mardo
has a Tiger Woods looking at you look
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like a strip club bouncer, tight
black shirt. You look like a Chollo
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that was kicked out of a gang. But you would still kick ass.
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But I will tell you this,
if you ever bring up the shut my
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face. I will drive down to
LA in six hours and I will slap
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the hell because that guy, all
that guy is a resemblance of the Saw,
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the Little Monkey, the Little Puppet
cycle. Yeah, the Target brand
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tattoo on his face with weak ass
hair. Ridey is bicycle to kill.
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The Cure has got to be the
cure for me dying right away now.
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I gotta tell you now, if
you ask me that question what anywhere,
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I would say yes all the way
and I'll still listen to the Cure.
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I love the Cure because this is
one of the few bands a week that
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have not lost their style and the
voice. The voice is still the same
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now. The look of Quick he
does look like a cast member of the
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Walking Dead. Aside from that,
they are a great band. How can
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you lose the style of being weak? You can't do it, My brothers,
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what is your most favorite band of
the eighties in musical lyrical content that
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helped you get you some tough times? For me particularly, it would be,
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of course my favorite band YouTube YouTube, and it would be the song
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where the Streets Have No Name,
because there was a period in my life
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where we had moved so much.
When I was a little kid, and
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to me, all streets seem like
the same. Well, my cousins used
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to listen to, like Tears for
Fears, depeche Mode, one hit wonder
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type things. Yeah, because I
was around, you know what, j
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Mark, I can identify with Tears
for Fears. Everybody that one song they
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had it on Home Man, that
song hits home. Everybody wants to rule
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the world. Yeah, wants to
rule the world. I mean that song
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alone, I think kind of an
inspider generation, kind of transcended what they
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were all about. And I mean
it was, I mean how it was.
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It was on a TV talk show
host from former s and now Steve,
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you know, even as the fact, I just remember there was another
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song by a band that you of
course hate um of but depeche Mode.
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You see, depeche Mode have has
a song called people or People. So
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that's a great songs. Yes,
people people, So why should it be
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that people should treat each other so
awfully? Oh yeah, dude, that's
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a great, a great tune,
bro that you brought up. Yeah,
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what about you chang? One of
my most favorite songs probably of the eighties
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holds Bear I cry when I hear
it and that's called United by Judas Priest
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put out in eighty one, and
the lyrical content is United, United United,
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we stand united, United, United, We fall to day we have
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lost that insight. Now, my
brothers, you remember during nine to eleven,
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America praised and said we were pulled
together. True, we would let
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nothing divide us. Yeah, hey
man, I've lost faith in our political
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system since nineteen eighty. Yeah,
I'm feeling young, I'm feeling long,
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and I'm feeling strong. I will
say that, but I will say that
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one song is what we need to
get back to. We lie to ourselves
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during nine to eleven, we said
we got each other's back, nothing will
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divide us. Okay, then we
get an election to where opened up the
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doors for division. But you gotta
remember change. A lot of what happened
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in our latest elections before Biden is
all a result of mentality of a long
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history of both the Generation X and
the Boom and the Boomer generation, because
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it's something that's been in the making
for many, many, many decades,
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but it was on hold. It
was kind of on hold. So people
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during the eighties they didn't want to
be seen as racist, although there's always
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been racism so a lot of it
has been thought of that it was gone,
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but in reality it was just suppressed. So people thought, Okay,
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there's no more racism. Our culture, our society has advanced. These are
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the eighties. This is the decade
of indulgence, the decade of excess.
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From here on out, everything is
going to be beautiful. And in the
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future. I remember this. Some
of my teachers in junior high in high
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school used to say, oh,
in the future, in the years two
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thousand and beyond, racism should be
a thing of the past. And the
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problem is that our parents from back
then brought up that way, so therefore
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they taught their kids that way.
Yes, and as time progressed, now
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here comes the group of people that
created this brand. So they create this
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brand and they work on the American
public came to say, you remember that
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stuff that we had suppressed during the
eighties, during the nineties, Well,
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it's actually okay, yeah, exactly, you know what I mean. So
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we can trace it back to both
our generation and beyond our generation way before.
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That makes me think about being raised
by my grandparents. They they were
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see they were born nineteen twenty nine, so they came up in the world
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War two era. They lived in
Watts, but Watts was predominantly all Hispanic
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at the time. Yeah, I
remember they told me that African Americans came
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there from World War Two. When
they docked the ships, they would go
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there, and they told me the
stories, and so little by little they
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went to the outskirt Santa Fe Springs
where they ended up. I was raised
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with a little bit of prejudice because
of them, so I had that in
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me. It wasn' until I got
a little older where I started seeing people
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as as as people were all people, no matter what color, you know.
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And I had to break that on
my own because they put their their
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values and their experiences into into me
being raised by them, and I had
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to break that on my own,
you know, me being grown raised in
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the rassa. But again with my
dad being a alcoholic counselor to guys in
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and out of prison and women,
and my dad being a Brown Beret of
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the seventies during the Civil Rights movement, to where my dad was involved in
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the East La riots. I in
tune saw the prejudice of a surname,
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your name being held against you,
Lord is the way I look. I've
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been beaten by cops push putting incarcerated
for no reason. So I truly attach
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to the struggle of what we've seen
through our three time brains of growing up,
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and I understand that I think we
regressed rather than progressed nowadays. Everything
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that we're suffering today in society is
a result of the upbringing and the brainwashing
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of past generations. And unfortunately,
some people that are so ingrained with this
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brainwashing that they will never learn and
they will teach it to their kids in
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future generations. One of the ways
that we can combat this, it's not
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we're not going to solve it,
but one way to be able to combat
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it is one person at a time, and that's why we hear it back
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to the eighties. Are trying to
do our best to bring smiles to people,
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especially when it's their toughest times.
We were here during COVID and we're
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gonna be here for many, many
more years to come. This is back
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to the eighties. Don't go away. No. If it's totally tubular,
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red or awesome, it's on.
Back to the eighties. Get full flavor,
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Hey, this is Laurie Miller from
the first an Original Expose and you're
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listening to Back to the Eighties radio. This is back to the eighties.
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We are back. If you're just
joining us today, we are talking with
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my childhood best friend, and that's
Mark Hernandez. He is coming from out
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of town, of course, from
the exact the city where everything that happens
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there stays there. I won't mention
what city. That's it. We have
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a phone call right now and he
just joined us last week and he's here
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today. Rod. Are you on
the line. Hi, am on the
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line. I've been listening. You
boys are fantastic. I come from an
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era where gay was not the hooray. I'm looking on the screen and who
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is that moscular Mexican sitting next to
you? Hi? Taylor? What's your
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name? Well? Mark, this
is Rod Steel. Rod Steel. Rod
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Rod Steel is chang and my hairstylist, and he would love you know.
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He came today on the show literally
probably, and to let us know that
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that shirt rises on your arms speaking
rises, I'm rising as I look at
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both of you. Wine. I'm
a bad altar boy, so Rod,
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we are drinking organic wine, but
you have called once again. You've called
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us during that so the only thing
organic is marijuana. Every time I cut
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Shang's hair, I swear to God, I'm gonna get high after what falls
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on my plastic. Hi, Tusty, I love the I love the Tiger
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Woods. Had I cut his wife's
hair? Really? Which one? Yes?
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Both? Right now that we have
Rod on the line, do you
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have any shout outs to some family
members that may be listening right now?
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Oh? Yeah, my girl back
in Vegas. Her name's January called her
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Janna. Shout out to her,
Hi Janna. Yeah, her two her
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true kids, Carter and Sky.
Hi, Skarer and Sky. You want
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to fly with me, Rod Steel
one way trip. Rod Steell's gonna let
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me go back to Vegas. My
girlfriend. I'm going to go back like
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you, Mark and your girlfriend's going
to be cleaning up after. Thank you,
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Thank you for calling Rod. That
was Rod Steel. Ladies and gentlemen.
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Once in a while he drops by
because he just can, so we
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have given him access. But yeah, if you just joined us, we'd
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like to remind everybody listening that we
do have a Patreon page that we would
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love for you to help us on
the program. To keep introducing the eighties
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to a new generation. And I
do want to give a special shout out
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to Eka Guzman and also to Susan
who are lately our latest sponsors on back
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to the Eighties Patreon page. So
thank you guys. Rod Steele wants to
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send some type of a hair product. I don't know from aquinit or whatever
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the point ismatic but anyway, so
thank you guys. If you do have
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a topic you'd like us to discuss
here on the show, feel free to
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write us at back to the Eighties
Radio at gmail dot com. We are
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talking about some of the experiences back
in the eighties. We got a little
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political there. We don't like to
do that, but it comes out from
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time to time. Let's talk a
little bit about some of our experiences.
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You know. One of the biggest
things that was very, very popular,
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It's always been popular in school and
that is skipping school. And of course
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the market not want to promote.
No, we're not, we're not.
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We're not promoting it, but we
will mention because you look like Tiger Woods,
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please stay in school. Stay in
school. But I do want to
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mention that there have been more than
one time, maybe a few times or
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maybe more that Mark and I,
as we reminisced today in pass in front
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of our high school, we thought, remember when the day was beautiful?
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And what was our our train of
thought? Mark, it's too beautiful to
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go to school. How could I
possibly be expected to handle school in a
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day like this? Yeah? Right? Who didn't think about that in the
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eighties? Because you got to remember, boys, back in the eighties,
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we can go to a mall get
lost. We can go to on our
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cage crew. We could find a
movie theater that's showing a movie. Nobody
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would look for us. True in
the eighties unless you ran into a security
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guard like we did one time ran
a cops. Please you give them ten
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bucks, tell them to buy a
hot dog on a stick, and they're
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gone. Now, how many ditching
events did you guys go with each other?
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And what was one of the most
favorite ditching extravaganzas that you both went
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on? Because after that, I'll
give you mine. Come on, let's
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you can't for you stuff. What
was the most memorable for you? I
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can tell you mine right away ahead. I'd say that time we went to
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the to the beach on our bikes
and then we ended up at my aunt's
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apartment. Remember she wasn't home.
We went swimming in the pool. The
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people or the people on the pool
that we didn't know, we're having a
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barbecue. They invited us over,
and we're like, why why would we
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go to school? We could have
a day like great food food. How
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old were you guys then? But
the thing is how far? How far
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was that round trip? Like thirty
miles? Yeah, we'd rather ride it
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like thirty miles go to school.
Yeah. And by the way, Mark
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fell off of his bike in the
middle of the Beach Boulevard on the street.
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So I was riding ahead of him, and all of a sudden,
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I hear this big crash behind us, and I knew what had happened because
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I saw it. Remember, back
in the eighties, very popular was to
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have some drains on the street.
They look like grills, and the front
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tire of the bike, if it
was too thin, it's going inside that
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grill, inside that draining. And
that's exactly what happened. And because we
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were going so fast down the street, he didn't catch it on time,
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and he flipped right over the handlebars
my imitation of Superman, right over the
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handlebars yeah, yep, okay,
right. In nineteen eighty seven, I
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became a parent, you know,
I had my first kid. No.
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In nineteen eighty five, my best
friend was killed on a motorcycle accident and
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I was the last individual to confront
him, argue with him and see him
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before he perished. And it was
all negative. Me and him have harsh
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words. And I gotta tell you, I'll testify. The girl he had
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on the back of his uh Kawasaki
GPC. She was freaking hot and uh
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you know he no, he got
her home and he was on his way
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back to our area when he was
killed. But now now trip on of
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this, he was inebriated on his
Kawasaki GP Back then, you guys remember
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in the eighties, he was killed
on Beverly Boulevard where you turn that twine,
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you know what I mean, before
you get Lee Whittier in to He
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was drunk and he was killed by
a woman in a van who also was
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in Nebria back then with both you
know, both alcohol. But in the
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eighties, I think a lot of
us became unaware and aware at the same
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time of what life really was.
I think a lot of us because of
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our youth kind of shined upon the
devastating factors of life, death, divorced
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abuse, bowling, and we kind
of sunk into our regular, everyday life
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to where, you know, we
were just comfortable being us. But yet
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the casualties of that decade that we
now do see were not as significant to
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some of us as they were to
some of us that were older. How
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do you guys think some of the
casualties, devastating things and factors that we
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saw can kind of coincide or do
you think they're worse nowadays to what we
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saw and how we dealt with I
think I feel like people are softer now,
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Like I think we could deal with
things better. We had tougher skin
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back then. I think today's kids
are a little softer. They're more isolated
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and sheltered. The kids I know
don't even go outside and play anymore.
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You know, I think what we
went through, if a kid went through
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that today, I think he would
crumble. To tell you the truth,
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Yeah, I mean there's so much
softer, and we were watching every word
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we say. Now no one can
say anything. It's just we were much
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tougher back then. My mom passed
away right before I met Mario and I
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remember me. I remember meet Mario
Los Nagels junior high. We were both
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leaning back in our seat and we
could kind of looked at each other and
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I had I'm like, who's this
duche looking at me? You know what
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I mean, what are you looking
at buddy? And you know, he
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came into my life at a time
like like God sent in him because he
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became my best friend. I felt
like because I had a really tough childhood
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where I had to grow up quick. But my time with Mario, I
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was a kid again. I was
I was having fun, and I know
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Mario was going through his own his
own you know, personal problems with his
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parents and dealing with his saying.
So I really think that we met each
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other like at the right time.
Man, this man means a lot to
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me. I don't mean to make
you cry and make myself cry, but
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yeah, yeah, this he this
man means a lot to me. I
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feel like he saved my childhood,
you know, made me feel like a
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kid again, like I didn't have
to like grow up so quick. Man.
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We had a great time, great
times. Thank you. Yeah,
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I appreciate same here. Well,
I mean, I feel it's it's reciprocal
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because you know, I come from
a divorced family, you know, a
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divorce mom and dad. I'm an
only child. I didn't have brothers or
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sisters. You know, I come
from a single mom that at that time
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I had gone to so many schools
it wasn't even funny. When I went
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to Los Nietos, I had already
gone through I think two or three different
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junior highs and this was only the
seventh grade. Where a normal life for
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a kid should be to go to
the same school all through those three years
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of junior high than the four years
of high school. But I didn't.
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I didn't have that luxury, so
and and and you didn't either, you
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know, you you went through a
lot in chang I know that's that's with
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us as well, and a lot
of people that are listening. And so
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when I met Mark, we had
so many things in common in spite of
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our the difference of the way we
were raised and the different families. But
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at the same time, we had
a lot of things in common. You
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know, we had the Hispanic heritage
behind us, we had the same likes
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and at some of the stuff that
we disagreed on with music and things like
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that, but we had a lot
of stuff, the majority of stuff that
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we always agreed on, and we
were all We were always there to back
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each other up, and that was
so important. And it because I grew
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up without brothers, Mark became that
brother to me. Man. I don't
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want to get emotional. I don't
want to bring this show down, but
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man, you guys have just displayed
exactly what I felt for a friend of
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mine that passed away in nineteen eighty
five, and the significance of friendship and
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what that friendship brought to you,
and that strength that friendship brought to you.
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But not only that, but I'll
go out and say this, during
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my years of growing and finding out
who I was, I drifted to a
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certain type of individuals to high school
that I met on right when I left
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Saint Benedict's. When I enrolled in
Montabau High School from Catholic school, I
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decided I would not be that guy
that was in that school and I would
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be something else. So when I
got to high school, I was totally
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something that nobody would recognize. You
know, those three months my hair was
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grown, I was like heavy metal. What you guys have touched upon.
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Hopefully many of our listeners can identify. But I'm sorry I had to take
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a time out because the chang never
gets emotional, you know that, But
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that brought a lot of emotion because
it's very reminiscent of my good friend Raymie
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Randy Barraza. Man, I have
a hard time out. It's understanding how
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he passed in nineteen eighty five and
that guy you brought me out of the
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demon. That guy was there,
And I understand where you guys are coming
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from. What it's like to have
a friend becomes a brother that shares the
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same similarities as you do in life, feeling alone, feeling rejected, feeling
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ripped off, and when you embark
upon individuals that feel like you. I'm
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gonna tell you guys right now,
from a neighborhood sense, that's what brotherhood
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and bodio means. When you connect
with somebody emotionally, socially, that brings
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a friendship. I'm talking to you, guys and everybody else listening to us.
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That creates something that time, money
and just greed cannot take away that
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bond, that friendship, that understanding
of both parties or many parties coming from
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the same realm. And I speak
upon this. You guys hit me,
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man, I felt like I felt
like I got hit in the stomach when
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you guys talk and embarked upon that. And I'm sorry to our listeners if
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I lost it, But I understand
because my good friend brought that upon me.
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And in nineteen eighty five he was
killed. I was the last due
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to see him alive. We got
in a physical altercation into him riding his
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motorcycle to take this hot chick home
as opposed to stay with me. Let
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me drive you and this chick in
my sister's ban away. You can do
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whatever you want to do, but
let me get you home safe. He
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threw a joint at me, hit
me in the face, cussed me out.
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I wanted to hit me. He
left. I never saw him again.
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He died that day. So what
you guys are telling me, I'm
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sorry if they hit me in the
face. People nowadays have to understand we
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are un borrowed time, my brothers, It is not guaranteed whether we live
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tomorrow tonight. But the one true
essence of life is we remain who we
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are and re remain tight with those
who made us who we are. And
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I'm sitting here and I'm crying like
a sissy, and I'm looking to you
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guys, and I'm like, man, you guys are the essence of exactly
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what I believe and exactly what I
hope our show reaches to all those people
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tonight. Never look for tomorrow to
rectify a day. Appreciate what you have
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today, love who you have in
the past and today. You know I'm
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speaking a little bit. What he
was talking about is I'll talk tomorrow earlier
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today. Like you have people you
love, people that you don't see for
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a long time. I haven't seen
Mario for very long, like years go
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by, and I told him,
you know what, I'm not gonna be
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like, oh, we'll see each
other someday, we'll hang out. No,
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Like I want to tell the listeners, if you have a loved one
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you haven't see, like, reach
out, go visit them, spend time
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with them, because like you said, we're on borrow time. Go see
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them and have fun with them,
and make talk about your memories, make
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new memories. Do it, Go
and do it. No more excuses.
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Just go out and do it and
be with the love the people you love,
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people from your past that changed you, that helped you go and go
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and do that. That's that's my
my little final thought to the listeners here
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and everyone. We appreciate a brother
and my thoughts and sentiments are exactly the
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same. And I join you guys
in that. Definitely. I've learned one
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thing from my wife throughout these many
years, and she's always telling me,
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live for today, live for today, and make it the best day you
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have ever had, because tomorrow you
just don't know. So love the ones
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who you're with and tonight with you
two fine gentlemen, and I love you
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guys. And if you're listening and
you haven't spoken to your friends, maybe
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somebody in the past you love or
or or a family member that you lost
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touch, we want to encourage you
tonight to make that change and to reach
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out. Sometimes it's hard for them
to reach out to you. You reach
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out to them if possible. And
in the meantime, Chang, thank you
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for coming on the show and for
expressing your passion and your feelings. And
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Mark, thank you, my brother. Love you guys, I love you,
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and just thank you for taking the
time to take a flight out to
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come and see to come and see
me and to spend time and hopefully we
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can do this together as three guys
doing a show one of these days in
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our old neighborhood right on. Yeah, So thank you guys, and this
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has been back to the eighties.
I am Tuscano wishing you the very best
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week. Go tell somebody you haven't
that you love peace, and we'll see
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you next week. Orna, everybody
out therefore we released you to another fantastic
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weekend. I want to tell you
I lost my marbles, but I am
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so glad I lost my marbles with
these two cats, these two holies that
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understand. Remember tomorrow is not promised. Call somebody you love. I bid
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you all asta la vista, asta
manana asta la weego aria, and to
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everybody out there, stay lifted,
stay gifted. You is the only way
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to prosperity. So from Toscato and
the Chang and the gracious Mark from Las
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Vegas Whoa, we bid you a
good night and we will catch you all
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next week. Dane, oh me
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